Colorectal Cancer

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Can a tumor or cyst in the anal area grow rapidly? My husband has a lot of bleeding when he has a bowel movement. Also I noticed his stomach bloats but it does go down sometimes. He just told me about the bleeding last week. Now he has a BIG lump in his anal area, it seems to have gotten larger in the past couple of days! He says he's afraid to have a bowel movement because this lump has closed the opening to his anas. He hasn't had a bowel movement in two days. He is in much pain. I have begged him to go to the doctor or hospital, but he will NOT go! He says he's scared to find out what's wrong and he doesn't want any examine or test in his anas. Please can anyone help me, I need to know how to make him go to Doctor! Has anyone had a problem, like this? Does this sound like cancer? I'm so scared for him! Help me by letting me know what you think I should do? I am his wife, can I force him to go by law?